The crazies are back! Just in time for the holiday:
DEAR ABBY: A few months ago I discovered that my partner of 14 years, “Curt,” had been sleeping with my 20-year-old son, “Troy’s,” girlfriend, “Jenna.” Our family is crushed at the betrayal; Curt crossed so many boundaries. We have a daughter together, and she considered Jenna her sister.
I hurt for myself as well as my son, who can’t believe that the man who helped raise him would do this to him.
Jenna admits that the affair is half her fault. She had been sending Curt provocative photos of herself. Troy has forgiven her. When he told her he was still willing to work on their relationship, she ended it with Curt.
I have kicked my former partner out of the house. No one wants anything to do with him or Jenna. However, I told Troy I would support his desire to repair his relationship with her. I feel I owe it to him after what his “stepfather” did. My problem is, I’m having trouble actually doing it.
I am so conflicted! The holidays are nearly here and so is Troy’s birthday. While I would like to accept Jenna for my son’s sake, I hate her for having so little respect for me and my feelings that she’d have sex with the man I loved. — TORN AND HURT IN ILLINOIS
Abby is disappointingly calm, and just tells everyone to get a lot of therapy (probably not bad advice, but bo-ring!)