That’s Pauline on the left, and Jeanne on the right. (Borrowed this picture from http://www.mayoclinic.org/news2005-rst/2718.html, which borrowed it from somewhere else, with more permission than I have.)
Jeanne has been the voice behind Abby for a number of years, but lately, something has changed. I wish I could dig out the column that first triggered this thought in my mind (MUST figure out how to access column archives on the Trib website). In April, I swear something snapped in Jeanne, and since then she’s been sassy to the point of snarkiness…even bordering on bitter. It’s a flavor I’d never picked up before in her column, but for the last few months it’s been particularly evident. Today’s column is a good example.
The writer has a pretty major dilemma: a friend has admitted that she’s being sexually harrassed at work, but is afraid to report it, because the perpetrator is a major client, and turning him in could jeopardize her employment.
Abby gives the expected, and I thnk we’d all agree, the politically correct, answer: “It is important that Millie report what has been happening to her boss. It is her employer’s responsibility to see that she is not bothered…Whatever is driving your friend’s harasser, it is vital for Millie’s emotional well-being that the person is stopped. Laws protect people in the workplace, but only if the harassment is reported.”
But look what comes in the middle, the “…” part: “I have long thought that people who use their position of power to sexually harass are either so pathologically narcissistic they can’t believe everyone isn’t bowled over by their charm (which, of course, is delusional thinking), or so pitifully unattractive and insecure they must bully their target into submission.”
WHOA! Abby, tell us what you really think! I sort of like her new ‘tude, but it does throw me off. As I mentioned before, we expect a certain level of consistency from our advisors. Even if I like the change, it makes me wonder….what’s going on with Abby? Is she cracking down, or just cracking up?